Tuesday, April 28, 2009

Friends

Have you ever watched Animal Planet or a similar show where a cheetah or lion is hunting a zebra or other animal? Have you ever noticed which animal the hunter goes after? It is usually the one who is isolated and not with the rest of the pack.

We have an enemy who does the same thing. In fact, 1 Peter 5:8 tells us to "Be self-controlled and alert. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour."

When things are tough we have a tendency as humans to isolate ourselves...and that is exactly what our enemy wants! That makes his job much easier. That is why I was not surprised by the New York Times story written by Tara Parker-Pope in which she said that having good friends can help you to recover from illness faster, make tough jobs easier and actually help you to have a longer life.

We were made by God to be in community. Friends offer us guidance when we need it. Friends listen when we need to vent. Friends help to protect us.

So who are you doing life with?

Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.
Ecclesiastes 4:12

2 comments:

sharilyn said...

so very true. i have seen that whenever i am wading deeper into the waters of community and belonging, the enemy does whatever he can to try to pull me back to the shores of isolation and 'going it alone.' he's tricky, but the Holy Spirit is faithful in opening my eyes so i can see what is truth... that two are much better than one.... great post, jim.

Jim Lange said...

You are right on Sharilyn! I think we all find ourselves at times getting pulled to the shores of isolation. This idea of community is not something we can forget.